Dear Abby: Parents don’t like son’s low-energy girlfriend

DEAR ABBY: My son is 20 and a senior in college. He’s a baseball player and is about to ask the girl he’s been dating for a year and a half to marry him. My wife and I don’t get along with her at all. She has a myriad of health problems and takes eight prescriptions a day. Because of her conditions, she rarely has the energy to do anything but lie around when she comes to our house. She used to have a job packing groceries at a market, and she would frequently log 10 to 12 miles a day walking. She quit that job for a job at an ice cream shop where she does little walking.

We had a get-together at my other son’s house, and she said she couldn’t come because she was too tired. My wife sent my son a message saying, “Really? From scooping ice cream?” The girlfriend needed to…