Miss Manners: Is it okay to greet strangers in assisted living facility?
By: Judith Martin | Published: 2025-06-21 12:00:00 | Source: www.nj.com
DEAR MISS MANNERS: My father has moved into an assisted living facility, where residents each have their own rooms or small apartments. Some leave their doors open to the hallway, and I wonder if it’s appropriate to greet them when passing by their rooms as I visit my father.
They might appreciate a cheery “hello” or a wave from the hallway, but would that be intruding on their privacy? If I walk by with my eyes averted, am I sending a message that their presence is not important? What would Miss Manners recommend?
GENTLE READER: Is there an option between gawking at these tenants as you pass by and fervently looking away as though they were inmates who committed a crime?
Miss Manners suggests you try spontaneity and not overthink the situation. If you happen to make eye contact, a…